Spine ACDF of the c3-4 spine

I have stenosis on C3, C4 & C5. I will probably have to have surgery because it's getting worse. Even my eyesight is getting worse now. The fear of having my neck operated on, especially will all those nerves in there is really scary. The tingling going down my neck through my shoulder to my arm is really aggravating. I can shift my head and it'll go away, thank God!